First of all MERRY CHRISTMAS to all! A tad bit about me I'm 23 and In a slightly new relationship with a 26 y/o female with a 6 year old just got to divorced a little bit ago we've been together for a 1 1/2 years.when we first starting dating he was literally never around maybe 4x tops and he was always going with his dad or grandma then shortly after that I deployed so 6 or 7 seven months of only FaceTime and what not... for some reason I thought we were ready to move in together so when we did when I got back (didn't really want to do the long distance thing).