SS 19 has now decided he wants to go and live elsewhere, of course it'll be all my fault yet again?! This will be the fifth time the boy has 'moved on' since he was 16, and the catalyst for him moving seems to be that people want reasonable behaviors from him, and for him to pull his weight in the household.
The audacity of these folks, huh?

I told SS he was not to do his laundry here any more, He even got the last word on the issue as he walked out the door...I don't really care about the last word anyhow but they all seem to.
I just now moved another load of laundry belonging to SS from the drier. Well, if SS wants to turn the laundry into a pissing contest then he is wasting his time. If he elaborates on it I will just tell him 'I'm sorry you chose to defy me.' Last year, in September, DH told him he'd end up doing his laundry elsewhere, after his blatant disrespect.

On a ride home DH is talking to the driver and he made mention of an ex girlfriend, while I was sitting in the middle of them. I think it is bad protocol. It does matter about the context of the conversation, I get that it was a comparative experience sort of tone to their conversation. I did not say a word, previously that day DH had managed to piss me off royally with some 'whatever' remarks and maybe I was overreacting, it's very possible, but it's really bad form to mention an ex, regardless of the experience with said ex, in front of your wife, surely?

Of course BM had to throw her oar in, sent her a response that does not require her to say any more on the topic. Basically, don't judge us by your own standards lady! Of course I said it in such a way that she had no come back...if she does come back then she's more stupid than I thought she was!