This is my first post, so please bear with me. Wow, where to start. My in laws have let bm move in with them. She has been living with them for since last Thankgiving. Currently my ss lives with bm. So both bm and ss live with them (we raised him until he was 10. Dh agreed when he was 10 because he would never keep him from his mom). Bm has moved ss 5 times in 3 years. This last time ending up with my husbands parents. I am floored. We are 1.5 hours away from them. Bm complains that she doesn't have the gas money to meet halfway to exchange ss for weekend visits.