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Can he stop me from moving?

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Can he stop me from taking our kids and moving? My mom is loaning me the money to finish out the school year here and then i plan to move accross the country to live with her. I texted ex dh and he never responded but a mutal friend of ours called me last night and said he is hiring a lawyer to stop me from going. He only pays 250 a month in child support for 2 kids and i can't afford to live here anymore. I pay 200 a week in daycare alone! He hasn't seen them since he left and he told our friend he isn't going to either. He just doesn't want them to move. Can he do that?

Ex dh still hasn't seen his kids

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Dh still hasn't tried to see our kids or contact me to see how they are. He completely cut them off. I filied for child support because I desperately need the money and i am getting squat because bm gets a majority of his money!! Its not even enough to cover daycare. My mom offered to let me live with her and to help me with the kids but it means moving accross the country. I sent soon to be ex a text and he never responded. How can he not care about his kids? I am so broken hearted over this and my kids miss their dad. Why is ss the only kid that matters???!!!

Dh left

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After I caught ss molesting one of my kids dh left with ss and then came back and got his clothes and stuff while I was at work. He moved out. He hasn't contacted me at all not even to check on our kids so I called him and asked him when he plans on seeing our dds and he said he doesn't. He will see them when they are 18 and then he hung up on me. He is pissed at me because I caught ss molesting our dd? I went snooping on bms facebook page and she announced to everyone that dh left the crazy bitch.

Protect your children

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I didn't protect dd the way I knew I should have because I was afraid of getting backlash over it. I KNEW ss was trouble but I kept pushing those thoughts to the back of my head because ss hadn't been caught doing anything. After dd's surgery she came home from the hospital and I caught ss in the bathroom touching her. I beat the hell out of him while he ran out of my house. I called the police and the social worker from the hospital. I refuse to let ss get away with this. Do not push your gut feelings away!!!

DD has a servere broken arm requiring surgery

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SS was jumping on his trampoline and dd got up there with him. He's been told not to jump on it when dd is on there because she is little and will fly off. Instead of stopping and coming to get dh or I and tell us dd is on the trampoline, he keeps jumping. He got to close to dd and she flew off and landed on a garden stone breaking her arm on the growth plate. She had surgery this morning to fix it. I am so done with ss. He has no problem hurting others and he just doesn't care. I asked him what was he thinking and he said he told her to get off and was calling me to come get her.

The bully died

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I don't know the details but the kid who bullied ss and then beat the crap out of a really small kid, died. The kid who survived, his mom reached out to me asking me for bms phone number and dhs cell number. Her older 3 sons stomped his ass when they saw him beating on their little brother. Their brother had to have surgery with pins and is still in physical therapy recovering. The bully was in a brain trauma center getting help and I guess he had a stroke or something. The mom was wanting to be prepared in case the police decide to press charges which they haven't done yet.

We had a CPS (children and family services) investigation

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So far nothing has come of it, but after dd was in the hospital for her concussion, Children and Family services showed up at my door. We answered everything truthfully as best we could. She got bm's address because she wanted to interview ss about what happened. Bm went all over social media slamming us and telling the world our business and how dare we involve her home in it. It was her damn son that was involved with dd getting hurt. To refresh memories, she bit him and due to his reaction, she hit her head causing a concussion.

Ss gave dd a concussion

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He is 15 yrs old and she just turned 4. We have been having issues with her biting. When she bites she goes to the time out chair and then she has to apologize. We do this every time and take away a toy as a consequence. So Monday I get a phone call from dh while I'm at the gym saying dd hit her head and threw up. I met him at the hospital and when the Dr asks what happened he tells her that she bit ds on the arm and he threw his hand/fist back and hit her in the head and she flew backwards and hit her head. She got up dazed, threw up and then passed out.

Bully

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SS is not allowed out of our site what so ever, ever. Since his bully lost his target he found another kid to pick on. He picked the smallest and thinnest kid I have ever seen. What the bully didn't know is that this kid has 3 older brothers who are as big as he is little. The bully was in the process of killing this kid when his brothers saw what was happening. When the police pulled the brothers off (because the bystanders couldn't) there wasn't much left of the bully.

We didn't need to pay out $20,000 and ss still has his bully.

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I'm not sure if you guys remember me but my ss stabbed his bully and nearly killed him. Dh paid out $20,000 to the kids family out of the money we were saving for a down payment on a house. The bully sued bm and she counter sued and I guess the 2 insurance companies settled with bm being the winner and getting like $8,000 for ss. We didn't get our $20,000 back.

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