I am just married at 21 and my husband has a child that is now 5. Although i love my husband I am questing if our relationship is worth all the pain. I can't seem to accept her and i don't know if i will. Is it better to give it time (however it seems that time is making it worse). I also feel as though i am keeping him from being the super dady he wants to be. Is it better to walk away now or wait years until i just deal with it, until i get hardened to the point where there is no more pain?