Ok so here goes. I am new at this but this is my story and maybe other have some advice for me or maybe I can help some one else just by venting ( I am thinking I am only helping myself). I have a SS that is now 14. When I first met him he was 6. We got along fine until I married his father. I have a 9 year old daughter. My husband and I have been married for a little over 7 years. Ok once we got married it is like invasion of the body snatchers happened with my SS. My daughter was only 2 when we got married and she doesn't remember a time without my husband or SS.