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Here we do again

So I don't understand why when a mother gives up her children to live with thier father because she couldn't deal with them anymore; does she think after a few years, when they are well mannered and behaved, she can have them back? Does it work that way?? She no only brings up 50/50 all the time but she buys their love and make them feel guilty. Does that sound like someone who is looking in the best interest of her children. The older son has told us he doesn't want to go back to live with her, yet he tells her otherwise.

Pain in my ass

I got an email from my husband's ex. She now wants us to consider her having the boys 50-50. She hopes we come to an agreement before the end of the year so she won't have to take us to court. Was that a threat? Ok first of all she was the one who gave them up to us. I recall her one time at their basketball game saying to me(we had only met 1-2 times before this) you all take them after the game, I can't deal with them anymore. I mean I'm sure some of us have thought of that before, but I surely wouldn't act on it. All kids get on our nerves here and there. Their kids.

Feeling Helpless

My 13 year old step son with whom I felt I had a great relationship with blew up on me today. They left us on Sunday to spend the week with their mom. He got upset bc my husband asked that they cut the grass if they had a chance. He lashed out saying is that the only reason why you all want us over here is to do the chores. He explained that they stayed up late at their mom's bc her workout stuff is in their room and she workout late last night. Although, I know his actions were bc he was tired still gives him no reason the say the things he said.

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