How do you get on with your SKids potential or actual in laws? For SS, I would say his in laws have been polite and pleasant to us. But there is always that awareness that they are very close to BM. SS and SDIL both went to a very close knit type of private school with mom cliques/politics, if that explains the sort of dynamic. They call themselves sister moms. Plus SS in laws and DH and I never actual met until after their engagement. It wasn't because of a lack of interest on DH/our side wanting to be apart of SS life and new family.