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Another Update on the "Rape"

Daisymazy2's picture

 A little background first.  SD, 17, said she was raped by a guy she invited to her house.  She called DH, DH rushed to her side  and tried to get her to file charges she refused.  A day later, she invites the guy back to her house again.  The guy spends the night.  BM's daughter (not DH's child) sends a message to DH to inform the guy is back.  DH rushes to BM's house and SD says they had sex again.  DH convinces SD to file rape charges.  This is NOT the first time that SD has said she was raped.  It is the first time she has filed charges.  They guy is also 17.

Also keep in mind that BM has FULL legal and physical custody of SD.  Dh only has visitation as "agreed upon between BM and DH".  Basically, meaning DH screwed himself when he signed the agreement when SD was 3 years old.  BM makes all of the decisions and DH just thinks he has a say because there is a little tiny clause that says BM will "confer" with DH about any decisions. She never does,  surprise, surpise.   I added this to show everyone that  DH can't not make any decisions about SD at school, mental hospitals, or anything. He just gets to pay child support and have visits whenever.  Also,  since BM wanted full control of SD, she has it.  She doesn't like it now and I was not willing to pay for a lawyer to see "IF" we could get it changed.  Dh never had the money for a lawyer.  In my opinion, your actions have consequences so be careful what you wish for because you WILL GET IT and all the H@ll that comes with it. 

Last month,  DH picked up SD at school because of her behavior.  She destroyed a computer and was threatening to beat everyone's a$$.  She tried to jump out of Dh's car while it was moving.  She turned on Dh and DH called the cops.  She was placed in handcuffs and sent to the mental hospital AGAIN.  SD only spoke to DH once.  She called him and said she needed her phone back.  He dropped it off and she never said a word to him.  She just took the phone and walked away.

Two days ago,  the 17 year old guy had trial to determine if he would be charged as an adult.  DH didn't go so BM called dh after the trial.   From my understanding which is different from DH's,   The boy plead guilty as a juvenile to a lessor charge.  He will be 18 years old in December.  I think he will be out of juvie by his 18th birthday.  Dh thinks he will serve longer and that he plead guilty to rape.  I think by the time they go back for sentencing, he will be just given credit for time served and be on his merry way.  I think he plead guilty because it was a sure thing for him.  SD is a very good manipulator and has the ability to lie with tears in her eyes and make it look believable.  

 

 

Comments

advice.only2's picture

It sounds cruel but I think the best place for SD is a padded cell away from society. She knows she had the power to manipulate and destroy. I foresee her causing a lot more damage to innocent victims lives as she grows and hones her skills.

Daisymazy2's picture

It is a scary thing to think that she has the ability and the support of her family to enhance her new skills of manipulation.  

notarelative's picture

This boy may be out of jail by December, he may have pled as a juvenile, but will he have to register as a sexual offender for the rest of his life? My opinion is that if his lawyer told or not encouraged him to plead guilty under the circumstances you laid out, the lawyer is incompetent.

Daisymazy2's picture

never mentioned by BM if he would need to register.  She would have mentioned it, if he was to be placed on the list.