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He is not right in the head

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Scene: A busy restaurant at lunch time.

Cyberwoman: OK so did ss23 apply for financial aid for the current semester?

DH: Yeah... ummmm... sure he applied for many things at many places but did not qualify because we make too much money.

Cyber: You know he is 23 he can apply for a student loan without involving his parents financials.

DH: A loan? F*ck that, you have to pay that back!

Cyber: :jawdrop: .... well yes that's the whole idea about a loan you do have to pay it back.

DH hits me up for $$$

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DH comes up to me last night and asks my approval to give his son $$$ for his tuition and books. Mind you this is the same young man who broke into our home, stole from us, called me an @sshole and told me to f*ck off. So I told DH why are you asking me I do not give money to people who are disrespectful to me no matter whose son they are. Naturally DH gets pissed off and starts arguing that I just can not have an adult conversation without hashing out old shit all the time. Old shit?

DH and priorities

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I am so pissed I can hardly see. Today is DH's birthday. I have a nice present that I was ready to give him first thing in the morning. I wake up to find he is gone and have an email from him informing he is out playing ball. WTF on a Saturday? I call him no answer. He calls me back an hour later and tells me he is out playing ball with his son, and will stay there to have breakfast. Then he asks, "do you have any plans"? F*cking ass, yes I have plans but I guess I will make some new ones now.

DH is just not getting it

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If you have read my blogs I have completely given up on ss 22 who stole from me, broke into my home, called me names..etc. The last straw was when he told me to f*ck off about two months ago while living in my house. I compeltely disengaged from him and told DH that I want nothing to do with ss, to please not bring him to our house, don't ask my opinion about him, just leave me out of his life but DH doesn't seem to get it. He continuously asks me to do favors for this loser, such as giving him a ride, look over his resume, lend him money.... etc. WTF??? Is DH not getting the picture?

Realization,,,, the beginning of the end.

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It just dawned on me DH simply does not have what it takes to hold his child responsible for his actions. He simply is not capable of administering the reality therapy this young man of 22 so desperately needs to become a person of integrity. Yet another chapter in the family drama. SS lost his job and does not have any employable skills. DH asked if I can help with job search but I simply cannot recommend SS for employment or ask anyone else to do so. He is habitually truant, been caught sleeping on the job and cheated on his time sheet.

Oops he did it again

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The drama continues and so does my rant. So about a week ago ss22 tells me to f*ck off and he gets kicked out of my home. Less than 72 hrs later he texts his father that he needs $350 to move into an apartment something he was supposed to have done 2 months ago. So DH genius that he is gives SS the money with the condition that SS shows up and signs a payment agreement as he already defaulted on two previous ones. What do you think happened? That's right ss never showed! DH rants and raves all weekend that SS is dishonest and he is a liar.

Carte Blanche

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I now believe that both SS and BM have full Carte Blanche with my DH. There is NOTHING either could do that would wake DH up and get him back to reality. 22yo SS is a loser who was found this morning breaking into and sleeping in our garden shed. BM sent her demon spawn to live with us at the age of 17, never paid child support but had the unbelievable gull to claim him as a dependent on her tax return.

HELP 22 yo SS is a loser and moved back with us AGAIN!!!

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Help my 22yo SS moved back into our house again. He lived with us since 17 when BM kicked him out of her house. We got him to graduate high shool with a $1200/month tutoring bill, but we did it. He finally got into a state college (by a mistake at admission) which we pay for. He is lazy, gets c's and d's ditches shool and barely avoids academic probation. Has no girlfriends or any other friends and this is the third time he got kicked out of a room mate situtation. He does not flush the toilet at age 22 so I don't blame the roomies.