I became a member about 4 years ago. I was struggling in my relationship with my SS that's been in my life since he was 17 months old, and is now 14. I posted about a rough situation I had recently gone through, which was not my best moment, and was looking for some perspective, but got slammed hard by other members. I ended up deleting the post. I was really hurt because I thought this would be a safe place to vent, but walked away from here even more crushed.