I am 21 and have a 38 year old live in boyfriend, who i have been with a year. we are 4 months pregnant, and im beginning to panic a little bit. he has a 4 year old daughter, who is beautiful and smart and he completely adores her. we have just gotten to where she is able to come stay with us. she is really competative with me, and im not sure what to do. when she is around it seems like im not allowed to have emotions. im not yet used to having to share him.