I raised my daughter she's 21, out of the house,  fell in love with an amazing man. He has an 8 year old son and 10 year old daughter and a crazy baby mamma. The bio mom has kept the kids from him refused visitation wouldn't let them talk to him.  Now she competes with us. We got married she's in love we bought a house she's trying to buy a house it's crazy. In all this now when she needs a babysitter she let's the kids come over. No notice no set pick up time they are dirty and not fed.