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Submitted by August2308 on Thu, 01/22/2009 - 2:05pm

Correct me if i am wrong----once i marry the kids father doesn’t that make me their legal guardian? All so if they are living with me? if not then what the hell am i to them? a easy way out for their mother? i am sorry it frustrates me things about her .. like she says i am legal guardian when she needs something. its not right. but there is nothing i can do about it. i just feel i am at a loss when it comes to the role i play in the kids life. all the responsibility but none of the credit not that i want it .. i guess it would be nice to hear a thank you now and again.

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Submitted by August2308 on Thu, 01/22/2009 - 12:27pm

Please help : I was told i have no rights calling the kids bm and asking questions like: would it be okay if I" and so on , i thought i was being considerate calling and asking what she thought but i guess form the response i got "i shouldn’t call her and ask her things concerning the kids " "they are her's and my husband kids not mine and hers" not that i came off as they were my kids but i do know i am a legal guardian to those kids and care for them very much. She "BM" can talk to me when she wants something from me.