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Submitted by anonymoussm on Wed, 02/08/2012 - 7:46am

Well, I haven't been on in a while. As most of you know, my SS19 now lives out of state. He is planning a visit to our state in March. I wrote to my husband about how I felt about him staying at our house with his girlfriend while he is here....(see older blog)...DH has YET to advise him that he and his gf will have to stay in separate rooms while they stay here. I honestly don't want them here at all.

Am I reading too much into this???

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Submitted by anonymoussm on Wed, 01/25/2012 - 7:18am

So, for those of you who have read my earlier blogs, you know how I feel about SS19. Well, DH and I joined a gym last night...DH then posted on FB that he and I joined...our biodaughter (BD17) commented about it with that's great! SS19 writes: Yeah Buddy!! Bout time...lol jk, then proceeds to write So that means when I come to (our State) in March, you're gonna work out with me right? My BD17 then replies with I think it's a husband and wife thing, which is cute....SS19 Then responds with HA! I so wanted to comment and say what do you mean by that?

Should I include SS's birthstone in my mother's ring?

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Submitted by anonymoussm on Sat, 01/21/2012 - 9:27am

I told my husband I wanted a Mother's ring for my birthday (a ring with each of my children's birthstones)...he responded with "Ok, but I would be offended if you didn't include SS's birthstone" I politely said that he is not my child...and he was upset with me for saying that. Why should I incorporate his birthstone into a ring that represents MY children??? What should I do?? As of this moment, I told him to forget it...that I didn't want one anymore. Thinking about going out and buying it myself and leaving SS out of it.

Copy of the Letter to DH about SS

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Submitted by anonymoussm on Fri, 01/20/2012 - 8:26am

Hi Everyone, I decided to post a copy of the email I sent to DH on Monday about his darling son....I am posting it with hopes that I can help others and of course get some input from you wise ladies!! The ages of the kids are as follows: SS19, BD17 and BS11 I removed names for confidentiality purposes.

Since I obviously can’t talk to you when it comes to your son, I have decided to write you, this is to avoid any argument with you. I first need to tell you that I love you, BD and BS more than words describe.

PUT IT IN WRITING!!!

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Submitted by anonymoussm on Wed, 01/18/2012 - 8:01am

Well everyone, If you read my first blog entry, you will see that I am completely disgusted with my SS. I have spent the last 18 years of my life secretly feeling the way that I feel...I simply can't stand SS. He is disrespectful to me and my kids...who are also DH's kids. My kids take a back seat when SS is around...I have argued with my DH for YEARS over this....well, now my kids 17 and 11 are noticing the same thing....they hate when he comes here. SS now lives out of state--THANK THE LORD....but is coming up for 10 days in March.

TIRED OF LIVING A LIE!!! HATE MY SS!!!

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Submitted by anonymoussm on Mon, 01/16/2012 - 9:11am

My DH and I have been together for 18 years, and we have two children together, My daughter is 17 and my son is 11. My SS was 1 when I met him. It's been 18 years of hell when he would come over twice a week. He has tormented both of my kids over the years hitting them "accidentally" My BD has suffered more than my BS, as they are close in age. When he comes over, my DH lets him do whatever he wants. I argue with my husband every time SS comes over, because he treats SS like he's above my two children.