:sick: I kid you not, I was sitting here fuming about how much I hate my fiancee's ex wife... Looking on the internet for ways to calm myself down and tone down the hatred... and I found this site. It is so comforting to know that I am not alone in this neverending battle. The only thing I am struggling with is that everywhere I look all the articles say step down and back, keep your mouth shut, no cents, blah blah blah... I'm sorry I can't do that. She is abusing the children and we have documented evidence of the neglect and physical abuse.