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Submitted by acep74 on Tue, 08/12/2008 - 5:02am

I'm so angry and ahhhh ... had a meeting with the social worker conected with hubby's work. We told her a bits and peices of everything about what kind of up bringing sd had with bm, she would nod her head and sigh, it started to get to me her saying she understands how hubby felt and what we are going through, bull.... no one can understand unless they are going through or been there, its damn hard and its soo frustrating people sitting there claiming to feel for you, so fake.

councelling with sd, but i'm not welcomed

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Submitted by acep74 on Sun, 08/10/2008 - 8:51pm

Well , some lady who has been in contact since sd took off , and another social worker from hubby's work would like to get sd, hubby and i together for mediation ... great ... but i know sd wont want me there... which is fine i know she has issues, but before she left she never said half of the crap she's saying now...
i do feel a little pissed as i have been involved for 13 years of her life.

sd wants a relationship with bf only

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Submitted by acep74 on Tue, 08/05/2008 - 7:48pm

well, hubby finally messaged sd and said hi and that and asked her for tea one night. She rang i answered the phone no hello , so rude... because hubby dosent want to rock the boat either, he tried to talk but what she's put us through and how she is turning everything on to us, it was hard . She wants to have lunch with him, no one else dosent give a hoot about her four siblings who are confused as hell ... i know that they need to repair the damage but i was the bloody one all this time who put in the hard yacker , and now its nothing. i wish i never did anything.

my mind is rambling

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Submitted by acep74 on Tue, 08/05/2008 - 3:28am

well i have been thinking heaps and talked to hubby .... instead of him lying low he should make an effort in contacting sd, as then she might make an effort to, lost cause i dont know but we wont know to we try. Even though she has wiped me ... if he wasnt for the other woman interfering and saying her mind and the bm maybe we might have a chance and repairing the damage. i dont know or think so as she looks fairly happy with out, but we have to try again hey. At least then we made an effort .

my hubby's neice

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Submitted by acep74 on Sat, 08/02/2008 - 2:14am

well, i was so angry and hurt last night, my hubby's neice got in contact with sd to talk sense instead she told her all this bull..... and the neice emailed me going off that my 4kids are well looked after and the 2 sd's have been ignored... ahhh. for the past 18months while the sd lived with us i ignored my 4 kids trying to give her love and support. How dare she?

relief but why?

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Submitted by acep74 on Wed, 07/30/2008 - 5:23am

Well, the 3rd party who have sd dropped their claim for cs today, but the case mangaer wouldn't say say why because of privacy? but she can change her mind anytime again.... it's a relief but still feel like a puppet on a string.... the officer also asked hubby if were still going public about the csa laws , so i dont know if one of my many letters to government MP's or the news shows got some attention, suppose we wont know why, but i'm still very concerened about our parents dont have any rights and the csa laws are shocking and very unfair..

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