I have been taking care of my stepson since he was 1 1/2 years old now he is 12 years of age, I have a 8 year old daughter with his mom. When my daughter was born, she truly was a blessing cause I wasn't supposed to have kids due to an appendicitis when I was eight years old. Every time I scold him or ground him for being bad she starts fighting with me, it's been like this for the last ten years.