Hello everyone, I am new here and would love some insight from people who also have step children. I am 25 and my husband is 36. My step son is 14 almost 15 and the other one is 16. The 16 year old lives with his mother and SS14 lives with us, until he is in trouble then he runs to his POS mother. SS14 has an attitude like nothing I have ever seen before. He is fourteen but acts like he is 21. His dad has been letting everything happen so long, and now he wonders why SS14 acts the way he does. It's not only the attitude, I could deal with that.