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Very upset today

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Hey guys
So I thought things were going great. But as people warned me things always have to take a turn for the worse. This is off topic and I really need to vent and get some advice
At a wedding yesterday, bridesmaid to a dear friend and we stayed overnight in hotel. Day going great and obv everyone had a bit to drink.

Standing my ground- how long will this swing in favour last?

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So this is an accompaniment to my last two blogs: I stood firm on not goin to the party and went out with my friends instead. Had the best night!
partner tells me the next day he and his mom and dad will be sitting down before they go back to Canada. They sat down and afterwards partner attitude has totally changed!!! It's such a 180 my head is spinning

Update: second chance for partners family

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i posted before about my partner wanting me to go to the communion party and meal despite me and his mom not getting along. I had wanted to go to the meal as less people and less overwhelming but has put my foot down about the party. He had tried every trick in the book to make me go which mainly involved him playing the victim.
Well I put my foot down again and this time FINALLY it got thru!

Opportunity to come ...

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A vent on how I feel this morning
I have been offered an opportunity to go abroad to do further training. I have one year left here that I need to do in Europe but there is potential to do the next part of my training in a better system half way across the world. The length of how long I could stay remains unknown but minimum would be a year
I have been working for this opportunity before I met my now partner. We have been together the last few years and I think it works cause kids are his priority and career is mine.

Freaked out at school

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I am a bit freaked out and looking for advice. I was off yesterday but my partner got delayed in work. He rang me and asked if I would mind to pick up the steps. I do this very rarely and only when he isn't available to do so, he usually picks them up on his days after school. I have maybe picked them up half a dozen times in three years and been inside the school once.
He rang the school to let them know I would be collecting but as I like half an hour away, I would be there between 230 and 245 pm and to just have the children wait at the gate.

Spend or not?

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As you know my partner has two kids, the lovely ss who is 9 and the bloated ego sd who is seven. Engaged with ss not with sd.
What I want to know is how far do I push disengagement? For example last week we all went out pub lunch . Soccer match is on my team are playing. I want to watch. Partner has taken kids to playground in the morning but has said he would take them back after lunch. Tons of kids in the place we were in running around. Ss wants to watch match too. He has gotten into team through me

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