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So here's the latest.

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First off... BM and I do not talk. I refuse to deal with her manipulative ways. For the past year she stays in her corner and I stay in mine. I recently disengaged from SD16 because she is becoming just like her mother. I literally do nothing for her. We are the CPs and I say we because I am the one around 90% of the time.

The manipulation has begun.

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So the teen girl has started manipulating her Dad and I against each other to get her way. And when I bring it up to him he gets upset. I refuse to let it slide because when she gets her way, her brother sees it. He doesn't say anything because this is how he's been treated his whole life at mom's house. The girl is the princess and he was just part of the deal. I have brought it up to her and her dad seperately to no avail. Should I bring it up to both of them together or just disengage from her now?

Poor SD. BM is so heartless.

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So SD had a school conference on Monday where she shows the parent all the college readiness projects she's been working on all year and goes over her planned schedule for future classes and how it sets her up for college. I always go to all the school functions/meetings/conferences on behalf of my DH because he has one of those jobs that he honestly cannot take off for without a 2 month notice (crazy but we make it work). He has custody and in the CO he is the parent that makes any and all final education related decisions.