I don't understand where the logic behind "She's an adult now, I can't MAKE her do anything" lies. No flipping way. It doesn't matter if she is an adult, she still should have a responsibility to her family and to our home. It's simple. You live at home, you help out at home, otherwise move the frig out! I was still living under my parents' roof when I was 19 and I had to go to work AND help out around the house. I just don't understand what is happening.