Does anyone else have the problem of spoilt stepkids??My husband and I are pretty down to earth but also were brought up not getting everything we wanted.... These kids havnt. Everything they ask for they expect to get because of bm (being a big kid herself ) buying everything they ask for. It doesn't just stop there. She actually acts like a kid herself and is very immature so naturally gets on their level rather than getting on the parents level. This makes my job so much harder as once again I look like the evil step mum because I say N O...