Hubby and I have been married for 3yrs together for 6yrs. I havea son with my x and a daughter with my hubby. We also have 3 step kids together. the youngest 5, bm and I get along no problems. The oldest 17 & 15 bm gives me hell. BM gave sd and ss to hubby whn they were babies. Dropped them off with his granmothe and a trash bag full of clothes and said he could have them. Just never ask for support, they were never married. The kids were 9 and 11 when I moved in my son was 5 the other ss was a baby.