SO-I have copied and pasted my thoughts on someone's blog because they have blocked me from responding. And that is there right
Here's why I completely disagree with the "if you don't like it leave my country" pov..for one it seems to go hand in hand with people who's mindset is "agree with me or else" and "I cannot respect others point of view or opinions". It's correlates with the black/white mentality. No shade of grey allowed.

I recently posted a blog (which I have since deleted because of all the detailed info in it) with a letter of complaint I submitted to the AG's office.

DH got a court order in May zeroing out his CS balance because he's had custody of the kids for two years with no CS from BM. It was a sizable sum. This debt had held us in financial limbo and was keeping us from filing our last three tax returns so the money wouldn't go to BM.

Thank God since I've been with my DH I have never had the problem of the X trying to get back with her man but I still dont like her!!! She swears its not about the money but yet she trys to squeeze all my DH money and to top it off she never takes their daughter anywere because she claims to have no money even though she just bought a house :jawdrop: and her and the BF make very good money and not to mention that my DH gives her almost a grand a month for CS!!! :sick:

But I know people who do get a long with the BM... How in the hell can they do that with out beeing fake???

Now that we are through the first trimester and things are looking good, we are gearing up to tell my ss 8 and sd6 that I'm pregnant.

We are excited to tell my skids about the baby, but a bit nervous. We want to do something that makes them feel included and conveys that this is a happy occasion... Anyone have any ideas? Can you please share how you told the news, and how it went?

Ancillary: how did you tell BM? Our relationship with her is so broken that I wonder if it is even worth sharing the news with her...but I'd love your thoughts.

I'm pretty sure this is, but I would like others' opinions on the topic as well.

BM's youngest child, a girl, will be 2 years old at the end of October. She is very very tiny, although this could be because BM and BD are both slight of build. However, both of her other children were "porker's" when they were her age (including my SD) AND my DH is also not a big man and very slight of build.

Right aspiration is what develops in the mind once we understand that freedom of choice is possible. Life is going to unfold however it does: pleasant or unpleasant, disappointing or thrilling, expected or unexpected, all of the above! What a relief it would be to know that whatever wave comes along, we can ride it out with grace. If we got really good at it, we could be like surfers, delighting especially in the most complicated waves.

After 3 trips to the courthouse, a two hour orientation, 3 hours of mediation DH FINALLY got what he was asking for in Mediation today!

DH's Old Schedule:
1,3,5th weekends Saturday 9am - Sunday 6pm
2,4th weekends Sunday 9am - 6pm
Wednesdays 6-8pm
Plus a pretty normal holiday schedule except that it didn't allow for his weekend visits to be extended if there was a Monday or Friday holiday

can't make a whore into a housewife, ur not the 1st u won't be the last too try, and she'll take u for everything just like the others! good luck with that!Mood: selective 4 minutes ago from Mobile

kinda stings, but is my own fault for bein nibby.......

What is it that gets to you about your skid???

My main issues are they cant' do shit for themselves (15 and 17), ss15 is hygenically challanged and is DH's shadow when around.

I have read many stories on here of how financially strapped families are due to the amount of CS being paid...or of SM having to work extra to make sure CS is paid as well as to be able to afford things for their other children. Do you think that if DH were able to pay CS easily, meaning it had no effect on your lifestyle and you could still live comfortably with lots of extras that you would still feel resentful about paying CS?

I will explain more about my situation after hearing a few answers.