Today is it..I've come to the end of my rope with my husband's ex-wife. I found this site and hope it helps relieve some of my frustration. It already helps to know that I am not alone in my own version of hell.

for 16 year old girls to wear g-strings and use tampons. I have two BS so I don't know how to react to this.

My husband was never married to his son's mother, she lives in FL with our 7 yr old stepson. Things have never been great between all of us but I do what I can to help her out and she doesn't appreciate a thing but nonetheless I am nice to her.

DH and I had a bad Tuesday and Wednesday. Tuesday, I asked SD16 to clean bathroom sink and empty the bathroom trash. I asked SS22 to clean the toilet and scrub the shower stall. Nothing happened; neither of them did it. Wednesday came, DH senses something is wrong with me. Yea, I was pissed because I don't normally ask them to do anything. And I want all of you to know that they are PIGS, by my standards, of course.

So it looks like I'm going to be the one who talks with SD about her changing body and that things that were previously no big deal, are now becoming inappropriate for someone her age.

BM's actions this week again magnify that she could care less about when her children are hurt, because it usually causes an inconvenience for her.

Ok so I'm a BM in addition to being a SM, what I don't understand is why some of those BM's out there are SO fuckin insane!!! My BM tries to control my FDH in every way possible and attacks ME when she's pissed to get to FDH.... WTF?! I am far from the phsyco BM I could give a shit less what my ex does and I would never try to interfear in his current relationship. Why is it that some of these BM's are so fucking stuck on ruining their ex's lives??? Just curious.

DH and his ex have been wrangling over who should pay to replace SD's cell phone. DH and I purchased it, added her to our plan, and gave SD the phone for her last birthday. Not even 6 months later, BM's new baby (not DH's kid) gets a hold of the cell phone and sends it swimming in the toilet. I don't feel that SD is to blame because she had the phone in her own room. However, BM doesn't let her close her door because it upsets the baby (who is now two). So baby gets a hold of it while SD is at school and it's ruined.

Well, this is my first blog ever! I am so happy to have found this site. I have never felt more alone and confused as I do now. Who would have thought! It is so nice to know that I am not alone and there are others out there just like me. I have been reading blogs for two weeks now and want to thank all who recommended the book "Stepmonster"....Thank You! I am sure I will be a frequent flyer as there is a crazy BM in my picture and she is making my life a living hell. I have been deligated to the position of "Unpaid Nanny"....did I apply for this position? HHMMM?

:jawdrop: Besides many many other things that BM makes me SICK over...she really made my blood boil last night! My husband and I were working when she dropped SS11 off at our house (where he lives) with my mother who babysits for us. My daughter 10, was in the front yard when she pulled up and SS gets out of the car, his NASTY DISRESPECTFUL mother rolls her window down and THROWS her disgusting napkins in our front lawn! WHAT A PIG!!! I wish I could put on some boxing gloves and get in the ring with that SLOB!!!