My fiance's brother is a hopefully-soon-to-be-famous musician (very popular in Nashville but hasn't signed a contract yet) and we just found out proposed to his singer/girlfriend (who DOES have an album out) and they will get married next summer!

Wish I could say names so I could suggest their music to people because they are AWESOME people and talented musicians...but that would both give me away (as I will soon have the same last name as him) and they haven't announced it yet either. But it's exciting!

I would like to start off by thanking everybody who gave feedback to my earlier post. There were comments that made me cry... but that's good a thing because right now I'm trying to fix some pretty BIG messes, some that I have made and others that I won't take responsibility for as I had no control (XDH with sister one I could not have controlled)...

SOOOO....I know most of you will say, r u crazy??? I wrote an email to her yesterday requesting that we can start new for the kids sake. I said that me and my ex get along great and it makes it easier for my kids and us. I explained that I am not trying to replace her, and that her kids love her, but I would like to be someone else in there life that loves them. THE BITCH NEVER RESPONDED!!! I am not a home wrecker, she was remarried for 2 years before I met me FDH. So what is her problem? Do I send anything else or blow this in a balloon and let it go? :?

I am this || close to making my facebook public just to bait BM into looking at it so I can blast her like she does me!
She is back at it with the neverending text to BF about NOTHING to do with skids!!

So, if you've read any of my recent blogs, you know the skids, DH and I had a "talk" Saturday night about the skids not doing any chores or even cleaning their rooms. DH explained I would be respected since I pay the bills in the house to help maintain them. SS22 doesn't seem to hold a grudge, although his opinion is that since he's lived here for 8 years, it's his home; he can do what he wants - no chores.

Good morning ladies!!!
Once again, thank you SO much for this place and all of the good that it brings to so many struggling peoples lives! Have you guys noticed a spam attack on here lately..? Some weird posts about financial advice and odd news items… just making sure the site isn’t being “hacked” by jerks. I don’t know one thing about websites, but just wanted to send a heads up…

Mornin' Mornin' Mornin' all!!!

Hello!
I'm new to this site i been looking for some where to vent and i found this site! Thank God!

Okay, so as much as I love and care about my skids, I, more than anyone in their lives, see their problems and challenges more clearly than H and BM, because I have an outsiders perspective, but at the same time, I am not an outsider because they are my kids too and I am highly involved and intertwined with their lives.

Drinking a beer and eating donuts... After that horrible nonsense with the mediator and I grilled FDH completely (BBQ on both sides) about BM. He's wearing the vest I bought him at the resale shop with tag still on it and says can I throw you a birthday party? So, ABBY, whoever you are, we're all keepers and so are they.

Ok so FDH is at work and I'm cleaning.. So I need to share this with someone so you guys are the lucky winners

So I keep smelling something gross in the kitchen and I can't figure out what it is. I've smelled it for a few days now and I'm going nuts. Well on of my friends would say it's cuz I'm super nose, she says I can smell a mouses fart a mile away.. lol