Just wondering if they exist. Wondering if I can ever be happy in a future relationship considering that most likely any man I end up with will have kids.

BM's mother called DF last week and said she wants to buy the skids a trampoline, but that she doesn't have room in her yard for it....which was a lie. She has a huge yard. DF called her on that and said what do you mean, your yard is huge! So she then said that she doesn't want neighbor kids jumping on it, and since our yard is fenced in she thought we'd want it. Plus, the kids are at our house more than at hers so they'd get more use out of it. (FYI, BM lives in an apartment.)

:jawdrop:

BM is still facing contempt charges on 13 Sept. She asked for a continuance back in July for lack of having a lawyer. At any rate. . . the judge gave DH the majority of his time she had denied at that time back in July during that court case. So ever since DH has gotten to exercise the time back in August... BM has been back to being a idiot.

So DH enrolled SD in an extracurricular activity here in VA (children's track) that she will only participate in on his weekends and court ordered time. SO he informs BM like the court order states.

Sorry so long, I just really need to vent!!

So, I signed into Facebook this morning & went to check out the Status Shuffle on Facebook. You can click on different topics & it scrolls through a bunch of different status update statments you can post on your page. My neice is struggling with some issues right now & I'm really missing my family, so I clicked on "Family" to see what they had. The first one to come up said, "Your children need your presence more than they need your presents".

Well - the drama continues. SD14 is a pain in the a**. I have been out walking the dog lately since the weather is more bearable and because BM chooses to live in the next subdivision over, I keep running into them. Last week SS12 almost hit my car driving their Golfcart. Two days ago she is running and stops in front of our house to talk to a neighbor. Last night, SD14 is on a golf cart with two of her friends and pass me walking the dogs. Which by the way one is her dog. It is 8:00pm on a school night. The first thing out of my mouth is "Homework all done" She says yes.

I'm not really sure what to say, so im just going to put it on here as i have no where else to put it and no one to talk to about, it ok if u dont reply i just need to get my thoughts down in words

So after having our talk last night, things seem to be going better. My DH went out of town today and left me with the skids (SS21, SD16).

The talk was about how SD ignores me and has a bad attitude. Seemed like the talk MAY have gotten her attention. She came home, I greeted her, she greeted me, I cooked dinner, she ate; we talked a little, laughed a little, watched a little TV, then went to our respective rooms.

Husband and I are happily back together. However we have a situation I need advice with. Another women is pregnant with his child. I posted a blog prior and people just wanted to know all the details of why this happen. Honestly it's a long story and me telling it is not going to help me at this point. So what I need is advice on how to be a good SM without crossing boundaries. The baby is not here yet and I'm trying to prepare myself to somewhat handle the situation ahead of time. I do not have my own kids but Ive helped raise kids since I was 11. I am now 24.

I am legally married but I have not changed my last name. I dont really think it makes a difference, and to be honest I am really lazy to go through the process lol. Like Ive mentioned before DH has my name tattoed on him so yesterday he said to me " babe if ur not going to tattoo my name on u then can u atleast change ur last name? I feel like you dont have anything of me". I said "well what about the kids? what more do u need?" lol.