In 1996 I was a brand spanking new soldier in the U.S. Army. I showed up at my first permanent duty station (meaning I was done training) of Ft. Gordon, Ga. The first day while I was in the orderly room turning in and doing paperwork I felt like an exhibit in the zoo, this is called the "fresh meat" stage, where the men in the unit start sniffing around. I met my future husband that first day. Within 6 weeks we were married, and within 8 weeks I knew I was pregnant. Along the way I found out my future husband had already had a son with a woman a few years prior.

I live w/my SO, my bio son 18 and SD12 & SS9 (they are with us every other week). Their BM has always been off her rocker. She's called me all sorts of names and physically attacked my SO in public. She intimidates me as much as possible. She's called the house several times complaining about me. ETC... ETC... ETC... You get the point.

I work nights at a hotel. im front desk clerk..well around 4am i hear what sounds like a howling dog...

i look outside.. nothing

well a few min later i hear it again! i walk outside and waddling down the sidewalk is a little puppy crying and shivering! so being the sucker that i am... i bring it in.. wrap it up in a towel and feed him some milk.. he is now curled up in the towel in the laundry basket... snoring!

Mr nice is fixing BM's dishwasher tomorrow..
I know I should be uber ecstatic that he's this awesome person who shows commitment and wants the best.. but honestly.. I just don't like it.. no sir, I don't like it.

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Last Tuesday we heard from the GAL that she needed more time to complete the report because she was still waiting to talk to someone or someones on the list of people she needs to talk to. There's no way in hell she can recommend BM to be primary but who knows what a 3rd party sees in these situations.

Something has been bugging me for a bit and I'm curious to find out if anyone else has had dealt with something similar.

So BM gave FDH his box of adult toys that he had previously used on her. I was like WTF!! Does she actually think we would use those used toys. GROSS!! Another thing she tried giving him was their bed, we both laughed about that too..

So out of curiousity any weird stuff BM tried giving DH when they split?

I am still so angry at BM. It's been almost a week now and I haven't been able to shake it. Every time I think of last week, I get upset all over again. When I wrote my blog, I literally started it a few times - wrote it, and had to walk away from it because I was so pissed off. I even thought of more to add, and then got furious when I was driving! I have been in such a funk that it took me a lot of effort not to get pissy with SD while she was with her mom this weekend. And I wasn't successful. Poor kid - I was snappy and she just didn't understand why.

BM texted me saying "I dnt apprectate u telling Sd10 about the lunch $ that's none of your business"
so i txt back saying "If you have something to tell me, you can call me i'm not going to waste my time txting."
We just got off the phone. BM told me "Why did you tell my daughter that her dad shouldn't give her money" I said, "All i told Sd was that if she was not going to take the 5$ her dad was handing her than he shouldn't give her none that day."

So the annoying BM called my MIL to say she is on her way to pick up the clothes Skids came to my house with on Sunday. My MIL calls me to let me now that BM is on her way for the clothes, so i txted BM saying if i don't get the clothes Dh & i bought back she will be reciving nada! No txt back from her.