I am still angry...
I am still so angry at BM. It's been almost a week now and I haven't been able to shake it. Every time I think of last week, I get upset all over again. When I wrote my blog, I literally started it a few times - wrote it, and had to walk away from it because I was so pissed off. I even thought of more to add, and then got furious when I was driving! I have been in such a funk that it took me a lot of effort not to get pissy with SD while she was with her mom this weekend. And I wasn't successful. Poor kid - I was snappy and she just didn't understand why. 
Of course, BM didn't even talk to SD about financing college?
Anyway, I'm angry... I'm lonely - I won't see DH until October 30th - I'm missing my old job very much - and I am just bone-dang-weary. I'm so tired. I actually know that I have actively forgotten some points of last week's meeting. Like I know they are in my head, but I can't bring them to the front to talk about them. Does anyone else go through this? I thought of a few things that I wanted to run by you ladies and I can't for the life of me remember anything about them except that they pissed me off! ha!
DH and I know that we are doing the right thing. We know that his job is a fantastic opportunity. We are both on board with the fact that he is traveling and has to do this job. It's hard, but it's a great job, in a time where they are few and scarce. But hearing him be sad and lonely on the phone is also sad. The one positive note about it is that we miss each other so much that BM's bullsh*t is miniscule by comparison and we bond over her stupidity.
Pity Party!! Booo hooo!! I'm sounding like the victim BM!
I NEED A FREAKIN' MARGARITA!!
Anyways ladies - I just needed to get this out. Thanks - ladies - and Steptalk! 
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Thanks Skidsmimi. Cheers to
Thanks Skidsmimi. Cheers to you! I know that whole blog sounded like a "feel sorry for me" post, but I just needed to get it out so bad. And I was trying to think funny or be happy and it just wasn't comin...
Passin' the bottle back around...
Strawberry or Lime or
Strawberry or Lime or Raspberry? Blender!!
I have a blender too! 
I hate her. I hate BM and I hate her family. And I have never ever hated anyone in my life. Not even people that have truly hurt me. And I hate her with every fiber of my being. It makes me sad that she was able to win that one in me. I gave her something that hurts my soul. I hate her.
I'm sorry your hubby is on the road while BM is acting up for you.
Speaking of margaritas, we received a Margaritaville blender as a wedding present and it is one of the best presents we received! We use it all the time!
If I drank this, I'd
If I drank this, I'd seriously be like "where the f*ck is my bed, and then tomorrow, where the f*ck is the toilet so I can throw up!!!"
hahahaha
It sounds LETHAL
I guess Momster that DH and I
I guess Momster that DH and I feel that unless we absolutely are in dire straits, we will honor the agreement we made with BM. They had it filed in family court. And BM does not know this, but we went to another attorney and had the agreement about the house filed on the deed in the county clerk's office. So, if you were to look up the deed in the clerk's office, you should see a declaration in there that says that BM owes DH this $$ by May 1st, and if she doesn't pay him back, she owes him the title to the residence. It also states that she is not supposed to get another loan on the residence unless he approves.
DH is home for a month in January, so we will begin sending her "countdown" letters. I think we should do them via an attorney that says "This $$ is due by May 1st, and if DH is not paid in full, etc etc." And just send one a month.
BM's mom is dying. And the holidays are coming. DH is a very good man and hates this kind of conflict. And when I was 17 my parents almost lost the home I grew up in due to bankruptcy. So neither one of us really want to just put her out. Although the injustice of it, and what she owes SD (in our opinion) is part of why we would even consider just going after her now.
But to do so, I think DH would have to be here. So until October 30th, I can't do anything. I need to let this anger go.
Did someone say "margarita"?
Did someone say "margarita"? Without salt please!!!
CHEERS!!!
(thanks..I think we all needed that!)