So I was thinking today how unbalanced the CS system is.

BM gets a set ammt from DH every month. Court set, a warrant goes out for his arrest if he doesn't pay it.

Just a general question for those of you out there with boys and girls for (s)kids. SS3 and SD5 still take baths together. There have been a few times where we've left the room and come back to see them laying naked on top of each other in various ways (that are incredibly sexual) and giggling. I think that's totally inappropriate and we've told both of them that they should not be touching each other's privates in any way. I know this could be completely innocent, and probably just normal kid stuff but I'm starting to think that SD should start showering herself.

FDH and I met with a new atty last night...he is awesome! He represents fathers rights. He will be filing a contempt motion on BM and is also requesting a modifcation in CS. Which getting the modification in CS is going to be a win!!!

I am aware of social networking entries by BM complaining about being single. I thought I'd write a personal ad for her. What would your ad say? }:)

I just read an interesting article on a fave website of mine, www.thepsychoexwife.com and the BD that runs the site (an incredible man with a lot of great info and resources about ex's with BPD and Parental Alienation Syndrome) and I thought it was extremely helpful.

... everything starts to fall to crap. Loghead has been incredibly cranky the last 3 days. Sunday afternoon, he added a computer work station into Princess's bedroom, since she's away at college. he's pretty much been there every waking hour he is home since. Each night, I pretty much leave him alone, but I can hear the boys going in and out, bugging him. Both nights, I've gone in to tell him I was going to bed, and to give him a good night kiss, and he's bit my head off for interupting!

Having a big issue in my marriage that has haunted us for 2+ years. We are married eight years. This is my Second Marriage. First wife died at young age leaving me with two girls 11 & 16. Four years later I meet a wonderful soulmate and we marry.She has a BD.

So tired of SD17 right now. DH is PC and has been til last March, when she went to live w/BM for 3mos. DISASTER. Judge ordered her back to us in the best interest of child. Yes, we are the better parents. We have rules, we discipline, we are NOT YOUR FRIEND. However, I am tired of dealing with her. DH has been working late last few weeks. Normally, I pretty much let him handle her anymore, as it is obvious that BM has worked her PAS charm to the max over the years and the SD believes everything she says. For some reason, DH and I are supposed to be "perfect." Not sure why?

Just recently I started wondering could FDH's exes SO be on this site.. Has anyone else ever wondered if either their or DH's SO is on here, ever recognize a story that sounds very familar??

So DH and I stopped by the lawyer's office this afternoon to sign the change of venue paperwork and to review the draft custody agreement for SS8 that we prepared. I'm really excited about getting this agreement put in place so we can finally hold XW#2/BM accountable for her actions and force her to plan. She has been off the hook and has become increasingly blatant with her disregard/inconsideration of DH's time with SS.