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"What Bio Moms Wants SP to Hear"

halfstepmom2skids's picture

bahaha..i read a post on the internet, not sure of site, but it said 3 things bio mom wants sm's to know, the first one was "It is nature for us to feel jealous that our child has another mother figure, we want you to know we are their only parent" i stopped reading cuz i didn't know whether to laugh or throw up. Excuse me, but there is nothing natural about jealousy. I have 2 bio boys and i have NEVER felt jealousy when they do things with their dads girlfriends and now fiancee...I mean NEVER.

Well what is finally said is said!

clairedelune's picture

Yesterday I had had more then enough of that little bitch and her attitude! I told DH that enough was enough and I had to talk to her myself. Before, I would deal with my kid, he would deal with his but now that she is permanently here, I have to step up cause she is gonna step on my head if she could!

Just talking, no worries. :)

MARLA_823's picture

We have every other week custody of SD, which I LOVE because i LOVE SD. But unfortunately I (not hubby!) have to see BM EVERYDAY during the week, b/c she has another kid that goes to the same school as SD. So everyday after school I have to put on my smiley face (not to mention look presentable, even on my bad days!) and stand next to BM while she tries to make small talk (comPLETEly forgetting she sent me that f_you text the night before!) and wait for the class to be released.

Hurt, Pissed Off, Disgusted...Yep, That About Covers It!

CrystalRE's picture

My bio-daughter babysat the SK's today as there was no school and DH and I both had to work. She had trouble with them arguing all day long (pretty typical with the SK's) so she called me at work to talk to me about it. When I talked to DH at lunch I mentioned the issue and he said we would discuss it when we got home.

Mother's friend lol

MARLA_823's picture

I took my SD to a neurologist appt a few weeks ago and BM met us up there. Even though BM and I do NOT get along, we are very well at playing nice in front of SD. Anyways the Dr. asks all sorts of questions about history and types it up. When we get the mailed copy of the report that was sent to the pediatrician, I'm reading the report to make sure it's accurate. Imagine how I felt to read "patient is brought in today accompanied by her mother and mother's friend." MOTHER'S FRIEND?? Geez I get NO recognition! LOL!! At least I know how believable our friendly act is! LMAO!

I am lucky!!

purpledaisies's picture

My skids do not ignore me and they joke with me and love it. This sunday when we picked them up youngest will be 11 on wed. so I asked him what he wanted. he kept going around the bush finally I told him that we wouldn't see him before his bday and we needed to get it that night and if he rather have the money or what. He said he wanted this game so I looked it up on my phone to see how much it was and it jsut came out not even a month ago.

Skids called to wish DH a Happy B-Day...

poisonivy's picture

they left a message because he was in class...

I listened to the message and could hear BM in the background,
"tell your daddy he's getting old."

WTH????????????????????????????????????

Since when are we trading good-humored jabs? We don't like you like that, skank.....

:sick:

I thought I should call back and say "he may be getting older but you're getting uglier, B$@^H!!!!!!!!!!"

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