What am I supposed to do about that? How many of you are friends with BM on FB? I will admit I am friends with SS on FB, I figured it would be a good way to spy on him. But me and that woman can't stand eachother, she's blocked from calling my ph. I don't answer the home ph when she calls. So if I add, she can look at my personal stuff, and if I don't add she may take it as a slap in the face. What to do??

There's more spam in the comments than real comments. Why the overload???

If you didn't get a chance to see the episode last week, go online and watch the clips. It is about a Stepmom and the BM who lost custody. Personally I think both are overly aggressive people. But, Dr. Phil didn't believe that PAS is a true disorder. If you read the blogs, many people disagreed with him. Makes for interesting reading.

I would like to see one show where the SM doesn't look as nutty as the BM. The sad thing is no one actually seemed to be concerned about the kids.

I seriously wish DH and I could take all 4 kids and just disappear. We have too many irons in the fire at the moment and the approaching holidays are already starting to stress me out.

We have 3 exes to deal with between us and we have 4 open issues in court with 2 of them.

1 - DH is working on getting the mediated visitation agreement added into their court order - Back to the mediator December 6th for that issue.

2 - DH is working on getting a CS reduction due to his unemployment - Back to court on December 2nd for that issue.

ugh. i just don't understand it. we went out to supper last night, Dh and i, dh's parents and the skids. dhs parents always want to do these family meals during the week when the skids don't visit much, they miss seeing them. for all i care they can have them for visitation weekends and have the skids invade their house.

Went and seen Chip n Dales last night! Then had to come to work! and guess what.... this is where they were staying! haha! Had a blast!!

Hope everyone else is having a great work week!

I there , I am in a currently great relationship , with an amazing man who has 3 kids , I am single , with no kids . I do not ,nor have I ever considered that baggage , I know we all have our pasts and need to accept and move forward . So I am here as I want to make the right steps in doing that . I am 8 months into a strong mutual relationship , I am careful , and very cautious about meeting the kids ( is that odd that I havent yet) . Would like someone to share their same stories with me , if your out there .

Hi there , I m lost here , just googled help for a new step mom , and here I am , Can some one help me where to go ??? I promise I get more interesting once I know what I am doing

I hate it when everything thing i do is wrong, or a big deal. I can't sleep so i get out of bed and go to the living room and get on here, not ten mins later, my husband come out have a fit cuz i got up. everytime i saw something he says something diff, like he's saying, no you cant ever be right. everytime i do something, he has a fit, i have locked my self in my room for a week just so i didn't have to be arounf him or my step kids, witch also meens i'v locked my self away from my kids. i just fel like i want to give up, i don't want to go on anymore.

As a teacher, I see a lot of strange family dynamics at Parent Conferences.

Two that had me smiling tonight:

1. One bio-mom only sees her daughter 3 weekends a month. She made an appointment 2 months ago to meet with me for Conferences tonight. The child lives with her bio-father and step-mother, who did not make plans to attend. Her bio-mom drove over an hour to meet me with me tonight. She had nothing to say but praise for the girl's father and step-mom.