Well, my middle adult step daughter who is in her twenties is at it again. She has been calling the house and calling my husband's work phone approximately (if not more) fifty times per day. He has taken to ignoring her now. I hope he is strong and doesn't call her back, but here is the message she left at the house last night using her snooty smart ass voice on the answering machine. It is transcribed exactly word for word:

tonight is ss14's football game. It is going to be cold. Anyway we will see how it goes. I'll let you guys know if bm tries to sit next to dh. I know she will try saying the boys want to be next to him but the boys are 13 and 11, why in the world can they not walk to dh instead of bm having to be right next to him?

Hey ladies, I am still alive & kicking. I am just way busy at work these days. We are closing out the business that I have worked on for 7 years and starting a new venture. They are also a lot stricter about screwing around on the internet. The kids are great, their mom is still a controlling pain in the butt at times and I have things I would love to share but just never have the time to do so. Dh & I are doing pretty well, both are super busy with work. BS3 is growing up so fast it, and is such a joy for us.

Okay so SD11 had a school assignment she had to have 4 examples of "People who give me life". It is a list of people who teach you things such as intellect, spirituality, emotional control, etc. So here list was as follows:
1. SM - gives me intellect because she helps me with my work
2. God - teaches spritituality
3. Dad - teaches me to be calm when I am upset
4. Friends and family --

Ugghh...sorry for my horrid part in keeping that psychotic nut case going> I will ignore her from here on out.

If anythign wants to jump on board with me and ignore that new thread by all means

DF and BM bought the house I now live in together, although BM only lived there for about 6 months before they broke up. She hasn't paid a dime since then, and DF has been making the payments alone for about 2.5 years. Every few months he gets sick of seeing BM's name still coming on the statements and it reminds him to ask her if she'll sign the quitclaim deed paperwork. She always says no.

I am a 32 year old remarried woman. I have 3 children of my own who live in Michigan and now two step children in Canada. For my own children I get them once a month alternate holidays and half summer, mainly because I had to leave an abusive marriage of 13 years and had some choices to make, as far as making the transition as easy as possible for my kids. My 2 stepkids are as much to me as my own, and their BM is needless to say a pain in my backside. I am not here to bash their BM but to maintain some sanity as an SM

I'm not sure if this is an OT blog or not.

I was googling along my merry way and I came across a site, http://www.divorcebusting.com, where a woman is selling marital advice over the phone at the rate of $150 for 45 minutes. If this woman has any educational credentials they are well hidden on the site.

Hello everyone! Thought I would share something funny...since I've been laughing since 7:43am!!!

As you know BM has tormented DH and I with text messages from 6:30am until the cows come home for several months. We cleverly put a sudden end to it all one morning at 6:05am by simply adding AT&T smart limits to DH number. Prior to doing this we sent a text from DH phone to BM stating that she should no longer text him because he will only reply to EMAIL and he included a new gmail address we specifically set up for communication with narcissist BM.

I really believe BM could not put up with some of the things that we do because she lives in a pipe dream and has a hard time with reality. She never had to deal with getting the kids ready for school because her BF would do it, she didn't have to do homework with them because her parents would do it, and she didn't have to spend the weekends with fighting kids because she would take SS11 out to do stuff and leave SS9 at home (this is all in the year she had them while both DH and I were deployed).