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I Can't Believe This!

Dawn-Moderator's picture

I went to stepson's soccer game today. My husband is stepson's coach so I usually sit pretty close to the bench. Anyway, when biomom arrived with her ex-boyfriend and their two and a half year old daughter, they had to push her stroller right in front of me. Of course they never said anything to me nor I to them. You won't believe what happened next!!

The two and a half year old, looking right at me, started saying there's (stepson's name)'s mom!! She was meaning me!! She said it like three times!! Oh my gosh!! I just about fell out of my chair. I don't know if anybody else heard it or not. I know that biomom and her ex had to have heard it. I hope that the poor two and a half year old doesn't get in trouble for saying/thinking that. I guess that is just what she thought!

I have no influence on this two and a half year old child at all. I haven't even talked to her. There is no way that biomom can say that I made her think that. I guess I must behave more like stepson's mother than biomom.

I do feel slightly bad for biomom but it made me feel kind of good!

Dawn

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Nymh's picture

Oh my goodness, I'm in shock! What could have prompted that little girl to say that? Obviously she doesn't know you since she's not your stepchild and probably has no reason to say that other than her own observations. Let us know what happened afterwards if you ever find out!

*~So sayeth Nymh~*

mamaceta's picture

I have to say Dawn...that made me giggle. It reminds of that Bill Cosby show "Children say the darndest things". I bet biomom was STEAMING inside! Hey, it shows what a great sm you are that biomom's own child thinks you are his mom! That's a great story.

happy mom's picture

Dawn you made me crack up! I would have fallen off my chair too or probably held my breath until someone spoke up and said something. I would have waived at the innocent little darling and smiled. That shows you how you how much you care for SS that even a little person like that notices such a thing and gee she hardly sees you too. That must have broken biomom's poor little heart...or should I say what heart?

-happy mom

Dawn-Moderator's picture

Biomom was a no show for stepson's soccer game today. She called and told him that they were going somewhere else. Didn't tell him where. Maybe she is still coming to terms with what her two and a half year old said at the soccer game yesterday! Oh boy!!

She hasn't been missing any soccer games lately especially with just a lame excuse!! I didn't mind, though. It is a lot less stressful!

Oh, and our team won both of their games this weekend. I think we are in first place!!!

Dawn

mamaceta's picture

She was probably too embarrased to show her face!

bonusmom's picture

I have to say that it is funny when stuff like that happens...The ex in our situation also has another kid with someone else, and like I mentioned before we have brought him along on some of our weekends with sd, never again will that happen as it caused too many problems...I kinda had a similar situation My friend lives in the same apt complex as ex's bf and we were all at the pool one day and her little boy was playing catch with me, at first she didn't seem to mind but then she realized that he was paying more attention to me then he was to her, if looks could kill I would have been dead...I understand from a mothers point of view, I mean think about it she already feels threaten by me b/c of my relationship with sd, and now her other kid is bonding with me....but its her fault I never asked to take her little boy along they pretty much asked us, and I treat all kids the same I love kids so I would never mistreat him b/c I can't stand his mother, its not his fault shes a b#%ch...haha I probably shouldn't laugh but its funny Im sure it made her feel like a complete fool...and it made your day...

Bonusmom