So as mentioned, SO said he was going to make some changes this year in his arrangements with his kids. Instead of seeing them every week at his expense (and driving 2 hours to see them) he was going to speak to them about making some changes so the relationship is more mutual. Not to mention I have been fully excluded from this arrangement. So last Monday, he didn't see them but by the afternoon he felt bad so he called them to meet on the Wednesday. That was 5 days ago. So today is Monday, and I am just assuming he isn't going up there, and it's now Monday afternoon, I'm thinking he is on his way home and he calls and says he is on his way up there! I'm like "I didn't know you were going up there" blah blah and it went from there. He is like, "What did I do wrong?" and he doesn't get that all I want is honesty. If he wants to see them every week at his expense, and his effort, fine, I really don't care. But just be honest with me about what your plans are! He said this year will be different, he will change things, he won't exclude me, well gee, it certainly isn't shaping up to be that way!
So frustrated that these fathers cannot stand up to the situation. What's worse, it was HIS idea to change things and nothing has changed! If he could have just let me know over the weekend that he was struggling to make the change and he needed more time, fine! But don't just call me at the end of day to tell me you are going up there, when I could have dinner ready here waiting!
Can't deal with this bullcrap anymore!!