Against my better judgement-I guess I’m nuts
Yesterday my husbands daughter came over to visit. I tried to make it out of the house before she arrived but I couldn't escape. I was sitting in the living room I noticed she was overwhelmed so I offered to occupy the daughter while she and her dad ate dinner. Suddenly, she takes a picture of me playing with the baby from behind capturing the back of my head. I asked her why she took a picture of me, and she said she wanted to send it to her sister because her sister wanted to know what we were doing. I thought it was strange but ok. It was almost too perfect. I left them home and went to spend time with my own daughter. Two hours later, she posted photos of my husband her and baby on Facebook and of course the photo she took of my with the back of my head. Oddly enough every last photo she has ever posted of me was the worse photo she could possibly find.
Today I told my husband that I thought it was rude that she lied about the reason she took my photo, and I don't appreciate her posting my photo on Facebook. He said I had no right to ask her why she took a photo of me in the first place and as long as the photo wasn't demeaning or degrading he doesn't see why I have a problem with it. He said I was nuts and out of hand. He says that when people disrespect me I should be the bigger person and ignore them. He feels the same as it relates to his family and friends. I'm always respectful and I never put him in situations where he has to makes excuses for my behavior. His family and friends not the case.
On another note, her mother posts every family moment to Facebook, I think she does it to make the dad jealous and he in turn wanted to do the same and make the mom jealous. I want no parts of it. I don't see how or why every visit should be posted on Facebook and I should have a choice regarding what's posted as it relates to me and what's not.