What will the Relationship be like when we get married?
I have been living with my BF for 2 years and he has 2 daughters (25 and 26) I have one daughter age (20). None currently live with us, and both of his girls are well rounded educated young ladies and mine is a senior in college. I am 38 and my BF is 53. I'm only 13 years age difference from his daughters however, I have always carried myself like a parent and easy to do so since I have a kid around their age. They call, come to me for advice, go to dinner, I buy them expensive gifts Christmas, birthday, graduation everything you could think of from a mom. However, this past Mother's Day I received nothing not even a call from one of the daughters and the other came over to pick up her anniversary cake that was in the freezer and clearly it pained her to even say it on the way out the door.
I thought we were doing well up until then, I deactivated my Facebook page because I believe the change in attitude is coming out of jealousy because their dad and I travel extensively and are very social. I now feel like I have to hide the things we do. My BF makes decent money but I make more money than he does so yes we do extravegent things but it's OUR money. I'm just concerned about what our future relationship will be like.