Refuse to be Step Grandma
Married this year together 5 years total. My SD had a baby 3 months ago, and I don't want to be a step grandma. I am cordial and nice around the baby, however I have no interest in baby sitting holding her or anything maternal. The daughter has boundary issues and now that the baby is born I fear she will invade my space and privacy even more and use the baby to do so. I want my husband to spend time with his granddaughter and welcome them over or he should go spend time at her house, but I told him not force that on me. If he wants the responsibility of watching his granddaughter then he should take on that responsibility not me. Am I wrong?