Hubbys ex is incredibly toxic. I never knew someone could be so disgusting! It’s all in my previous posts. Anyhow last time we had SS for the holidays he went home and Hubbys ex let rip and accused me of saying things that made SS uncomfortable. It was pretty hurtful as we had an amazing time and I pride myself on doing well by SS in such a toxic situation where I could go insane. Last visit never happened. The ex pulled the old “he doesn’t want to come” so she expects us to have him this weekend instead. But Hubbys working and “I don’t want to make SS uncomfortable” so we can’t have him. And hubby 110% has my back over it. It’s a long weekend and she had plans and we have just played her at her own game. It’s sucks for the child but I am not going to watch SS only to be accused of stuff. This is a little win that doesn’t happen often. Hubby said to me the other day he’s sick of fighting her so we will play her at her own game and no longer go out of our way to fight for our weekends. If she wants to accuse me of shit then she has just missed out on her on call babysitter. Hubby works a lot and the only reason he could have SS so often was because I was happy to help out wherever I could.