I need to vent and needed to share. SD ridiculous
So my husband and I decided to reconcile get into counseling and make our marriage work. He was out of the house for roughly a month.
This weekend was my birthday. SD was here for the weekend. Friday night was pretty standard she wanted her dads undivided attention, turned her nose up when I made for dinner and was complaining my kids were annoying. All this I said nothing about.
Satuday I started a new job so I was around SD for maybe a half hour before she started complaining about me. I had a headache so I decided to take my daughter into the bedroom and lay down. I hear SD talking to H saying that she’s in a bad mood and is uncomfortable because she thinks I’m mad at her. Then H comes in the other room and starts interrogating me. He tells me why are you mad at my daughter. I said I have no idea what you’re talking about nobody is mad at your daughter and deep down you know this. Instead of telling her nobody is mad you’re in here starting with me for no reason. My inlaws were in the next room waiting to take us to dinner and she’s complaining about nothing.
The next morning I got up and went to the bathroom. On the floor behind the toilet I found 2 chewed up pieces of gum and wrappers. I called H in and asked him where this came from because nobody in this house has been chewing gum.
He then starts yelling at SD, she then said she couldn’t reach the garbage. We’re both livid. Not only did I find chewed gum on the bathroom floor but there was chewed pieces of gum in my kids toy chest and gum stuck to the wall in the kids bedroom and also in the shower. First of all I don’t know what would inspire this child to do that but also if either one of my kids got of hold of it they could have choked. My 2 year old and 4 and half non verbal autistic child doesn’t know how to chew gum. As I found a piece stuck to the wall right behind his bed. SD shares a room with my son, they have bunk beds and she sleeps on top he sleeps on the bottom and the gum was right behind his bed. This is kind of ridiculous don’t you guys think? A total of 6 pieces of chewed gum just scattered all around the house not one she threw away. By the way our garbage cans are on the floor so her not being able to reach it is bullshit.
I told H every time this kid comes over there’s some kind of issue. This kid gets coddled constantly and when she comes here her father always spends time alone with her. Her parents have been divorced for 6 years now and H still goes on to says she’s a fragile child who can’t handle all this and just wants her parents back together. Personal at this point I don’t think she’s fragile anymore I think she’s just plain mean