How do people not see BM is crazy??
Quick backstory: SO has a 3 year old daughter with BM (SD was a result of a "friends with benefits" relationship; SO and BM were never even dating, although BM tells everyone they were). SO and I got together weeks after SD's birth and he told BM about it when we became serious after 5 months of seeing each other (I had never met SD until AFTER SO told BM about us). BM FLIPPED and SO, who had been "a great daddy" and BM was "so happy SO and his entire family were involved in SD's life," suddenly became a deadbeat dad who didn't want anything to do with their child. After finally accepting that he wasn't going to leave me to get "back" together with her, she stopped allowing him access to SD and told everyone he just didn't try to get her.
Anyway, fast forward to now. BM's first kid's dad (who she says is SD3's "daddy" while SO is her "sperm donor" and she has been trying to get back together with for months) is dating another girl now. After trying to break up this relationship, BM has finally accepted it won't happen. She is now not allowing her kids to see this man anymore, either, saying he is a bad influence on them and that it's "in the kids' best interests" and that it's "the hardest decision but is what's best for the kids."
How in the world can people not see that she is the crazy one??? People have heard SO's side of the story of him saying she won't let him see SD3 (they're in a custody battle now; still hasn't seen her in over a year) but still believed BM because, I mean really, what kind of mother would just stop letting their kid see their father when they say on FB how much of great mother they are who always puts their kids first? Now that neither of her kids are allowed to see their dads, how do people believe her lies? I wish I could just open up everyone's eyes to who/what she really is. It infuriates me that people are supportive of her keeping her kids' fathers out of their lives!