Could ourfamilywizard help us?
SO and BM have not had contact in almost 3 years. BM has changed her phone number and will not let him have it; she will only call him from blocked numbers and that's only happened maybe twice. For about a year and a half SO was contacting her through her father (only to ask for SD time). She will now not allow him to contact her at all so he has no way to get SD3 currently (they were never married and he stupidly didn't take her to court as soon as SD was born, so there is no custody order). A custody battle is going on currently but no temporary custody/visitation order is in affect. I've seen about ourfamilywizard on StepTalk a few times and I was wondering if that could be something to help them right now (without the court ordering BM to use it)? I mean, BM probably won't go along with the idea anyway, but let's say, theoretically speaking, she does agree to try it. Could it be something that benefits their situation since no one is in direct contact with the other parent? It would help him have back up of actually trying to cooperate with BM, at least, even if she does refuse, right?