Husband threatening to leave over SD19
Last night was the "Come to Jesus" discussion.
DH said he wants to leave because "someone need to consider the impact on him."
For a while now it has felt to me that DH is losing faith in me. We had united for a stage over SD19 and a number of things she does and her attitude to m. He was kind and we got into to a routine that managed her better. We saw a counsellor.
Over time DH pulled away.
his attitude is "that's all fixed now".
My reality is that SD19 is still a fixture in our house every second week and based on doing a "double degree" will be here for at another 3 years. Every friend and family member and 2 very lovely housekeepers have noted that she strongly dislikes me and is VERY attached to her dad however over time her methods are more and more clever.
Do you know what I hate? She has the power to come and go and just mess with our world with her complex crazy games and obsession with her daddy. I want to come and go. I can't. I have a full time job, a 6 year old and a mortgage. None of these things are allow me to come and go or even fit in a bikini wax.