wont' shower - please help!!!
i have a ss15 that i cannot stand. he does not like to shower, he doesn't like to brush his teeth, he perfers dirty clothes. i can't get disneyland dad to talk to him about this because he doesn't want to fight with toad while he's visiting for the weekend.
i have tried to do the go shower and then we'll go to _____.
i dispise this kid - i hate everything we do as a family that he has to come. he smells like cheap mexican food mixed with stinky sneakers. he normally has unbrushed curly hair that hasnt' been washed more than once a week. the last family outing we had a meal and toad shows up with his hair buzzed -i told him he looked nice, he replied that yea and now he doesnt' have to wash his hair. grosses me out. i dont know how to get past my utter dislike for this kid. there is no way in hell i woudl associate with someone that had a kid like him.
his room has the door closed at all times whether he's there or not. i will not look at that filth. call me a bitch if you will, but i have no more choices. i have asked DH to talk to him about getting him to work on his hygiene, i have mentioned to his grandparents who are very close to DH and they only informed me that this stinky kid has always been like this so thanks for telling me taht awesome info!!!
i'm ready to just cry. i have made posts in a blog before and no one helps so i dont know if i've made people mad by bashing on this kid or what.
is the no shower thing normal??
how do i get DH to see that it's negatively affecting his health and our relationship?!?!