Update to Netflixgate
Just a shorty: I had given the password and done some reasearch.
It might just be a non-issue, because she hasnt logged into my account since 4/17 when this first came up.
AND she hasnt been with us at all...and no contact (no drama also).
SO, because netflix will soon be charging for separate household account sharing, May 1st I will simply change password and be done with it. Ill just revert my account to 2 devices, and be done with THAT aspect as well.
Not going to mention anything either. I am pretty solid in my feelings that if no relationship is desired fine, but dont expect to be able to access any accounts that I pay for.
Still looking at the long game and preparing myself for that future also.
Thank you to everyone that gave me their input. I know it sounds petty, but these are the steps we all need to take to take our power back. This was and is a big step for me...its like quitting sugar cold turkey! LOL.
SO, hope everyone understands, the help is always appreciated. I might not take all the advice given, but I read and internalise and re-read...and think about it in the shower (no just kidding...maybe)