Thanks for the update, I have been wondering about you. Have you contacted a lawyer yet? You need to come up with a plan that will work for you, no need to work on a plan with him.

Of course he's telling you the ladies are lining up. He wants you to believe you'll be suffering a YUGE loss from gaslighting, manic, paranoid, unemployed, drug dealer that has a violent side JACKWAD. The reality is that you're THE best thing that ever happened to him and he will never be so blessed ever again. Whereas YOUR life will only improve.

You could play that same asinine game - and better because you have us to help - but you're too classy to do that. 

Sweetie, you know the saying here: ignore the wh0re. Psssst...He's the wh0re. You're moving onward and upward away from all of the BS he has dumped all over you. Soon you will be BS free and he will still be a jackwad. 

Much love to you and {{{HUGS}}}

I assume you're both living in the house.  Please stay safe.  I never dreamed my handsome, funny ex could ever get violent but he did.  Split-ups bring out intense emotions.  People do things they'd never do again.  Thinking of you ...

Don't worry about women lining up. One man's trash is another man's treasure so it might work out for them since water seeks its own level

You too could have men lining up, TRUST ME...Single women are a hot commodity for all men...no matter how they look or their age....its a reality that women have options if they want to have a man and can easily replace them...So let's not fret about "women lining up" when we both know you could fill a stadium of men lining up for you simply by being a "single woman" lol

Just act friendly and get this over with...Happy for you to no longer be a stepparent! That's the best thing to come out of this. When he brags about women, just say "awesome! I'm glad we can move on and be cool", "they are SO LUCKY to have you, I would know!"...make him believe you are the loser and pathetic in the story until he finally leaves and you got what you want. Actors studio!

What a horrible thing for your husband to do, ie post your wedding pic and say he was "letting you go" - you're not his effing employee!  Hopefully you will be going on to a better life - and it's good you have support around you. I envy you not being a stepmother any more - I think a lot of us would relish that!  Stay safe and don't bother involving that dickhead in your plans. 

Your husband is a massive douchebag. Tantruming on social media is pathetic at his age. That will only attract people at his level. I can't wait to hear that you have either found your own place or he's moved out. That will be such a relief and fresh start. 

So sorry Clove.  Please be safe and you know how to contact me if you want to talk or need a vacation!

Thanks for the update! I was wondering how you were doing.

You're showing such incredible strength and wisdom. Stay safe!

I'm willing to bet my knee-high Harleys that he's acting soooooo magnanimous in his fakebook comments. Like "I did my best" and "she didn't appreciate me" and other BS to make him look like a long-suffering victim who tried SO HARD, but CLove is a major bee. The idiot women fall for it and the boy's club will side with the jackwad. 

On second thought, I won't bet my Harleys, but I'd like to give him a boot in the arse and a Double Flying Fist Monkey Nut Punch for what he's done to you over the years.

This guy is such a jackass it's unreal. "Letting you go" lmao. CLove, let the trash take itself out and focus on what's next. You're in for the biggest win of them all, freedom from this loser and his loser kids. 

I got your back lady. I'll use my super powers to give him a bad case of garlic smelling breath and junk. I cannot wait to see you shine and you will shine as soon as he's no longer around to tarnish your glow. 

If it were not so pathetic.. I would laugh.

I do so hope you have gotten some legal advice by now and know a bit about how things may unfold.  Do NOT wait for him to to shoot the first bullet.. know your best point of advantage.. and take your lawyer's advice.  If they tell you that you are owed nothing.. then that is what it is.. move out.. move on.  But I bet it will be a lot more than nothing.

You are smart, amazing, talented, kind, creative, funny.. could go on and on...... and this man never showed you the appreciation or respect you deserved. He can be an idiot all he wants on social media, the truth is he is not the  prize. I know the world awaits you. 

As for ladies lining up. Not likely.

I was just thinking last evening that I would reach out to you to see how you are doing.

You got this CLove.  I so look forward to reading of your journey in taking your Do-Over and engaging in your new life adventure.  

Let him rot.  He will. His shallow and polluted gene pool proves that. Beyond any shadow of a doubt.

Celebrate your escape.  I am celebrating it for you.

Take care of you.

What an immature, repulsive wanger. Please block him. Don't look at his stuff, as tempting as it must be. Block that b-stard from your life and focus on healing. 

And congratulations on being relieved of the role of stepmonster! 

Got a job and worked 40 to 60 hours a week.  He would not have for this bull sh%tt.  He should be posting about moving out

Sorry to hear clove

From what you described in the posts i read your husband seemed like a selfish annoying douchey pita

He also stayed having his bratty spawns destroy your peace in your home and he didn't prioritize you like a good husband should. 
 

Him claiming women lining up to be with him?!!....Girl that's nothing more than delusions of grandeur.
 

He will get turned every which way but loose if he had to get back in this coldblooded dating game. He won't hack it. 

You may not see it now but the dead weight is releasing itself. 

Get him an unlimited tattoo kit with rusty needles for him and his mini spouse as a divorce gift