Your choosing cLove over your own daughter
Daddy doesnt loooooovvvveeee meeeeeee.
I know this wasnt meant for me, it was meant to hurt DH, which it didnt, but I just have had enough of these shenanigans. Enough already!
Toxic Troll (Humpty Troll) was harassing DH about "her" refund money, and then poked and prodded with the following:
"Feral Forger is really hurt. She saw you out at _____________ with cLove, and you didnt even do anything for her bday. Clove sent something, but shes really hurt that you didnt even text her. Shes really hurt that you are choosing cLove over your own daughter again."
Background : I took my husband out on a date to an expensive restaurant, met up with a friend, and posted to instagram. Feral Forger follows me on instagram. I was hesitant at first and now I know that I must block. Eventually.
SO, after seeing that text and formulating my evil plot, I texted Feral Forger that I was really shocked and at a loss for words. I told her that I took her father out on a date that I paid for with money I work for. I related all that I have done to help her and "lift her up", all without expecting anything back and this is how she repays me. That her father has tried countless times to take her out for dinners or lunches on HIS dime, that she is always busy. That if she really wants a relationship with him and I, the road goes in BOTH directions. I told her that I was hurt by these comments. What a relief to get all this out!!!!!
Her response was to blame her mothers being medicated and confused. And that she does want a relationship. Knowing full well this was all BS, I went forward and accepted her excuses and invited her out for a small short evening out with us at the very same place. In this way, she knows that I am not putting up with the BS of "her father choosing me over her", that if she wants to keep in our good graces she needs to STFU. She will get some of her inhertance $$ from her gma, a thank you gift for taking care of her. She will get to "bond" with her father.
And if this comes up again -
Im prepared to speak up for myself this time. And I dont give a flying f@ck.