Following and Unfollowing - Toxic Troll Strikes again!
I need some advice Steptalkers.
What should I do?
I like and enjoy social media, perhaps a bit too much. I do both Instagram and Facebook, while Dh does mainly Facebook. He has an instagram account, however he doesnt use it at all, really, hasnt even made a single post until yesterday, but Ill get to that in a sec.
I have Toxic Trolls 6 different accounts blocked on Facebook, but not on Instagram. Shes mainly active on Facebook, but has just started doing more on Instagram, apparently. I say apparently because yesterday, Dh mentioned that she had started following him on instagram, and he panicked and told her to "please unfollow me, thats not cool, I dont post much there anyway, Im married now, its not cool." So she said "ok", and did.
We had a mini-instagram session whereby I showed him how to block the Troll, and really wished he had told me first so that I could have him block her without any communication, but there you have it. He even sais "you would have been proud of me, how I just told her no thats not cool dont do that". I am happy sure, but thats not what I need advice about.
What the actual feck? Fathers day I saw a post about what an awesome daddy he is. The next month shes calling him names. so, what is behind all this? I have a few theories, and asked DH, because he was with her for 20 years so he would know how that diseased and sick mind works better than me.
Theory #1: Shes making a play for my husband. Pickings are slim among the solid stable nice guy with a good job crowd. Shes trolling to see if he is looking to escape from his marriage to me, how could he posibly be happy with me. Stinky thinking, yes.
* Theory #2: Shes snooping, wants to know all about our fabulous life. She gets glimmers from Munchkin SD13, Im sure. She does nothing and goes no where and has no adventures of her own, even steals MY photos of munchkin for her photos. Also, she needs intel to use against him somehow. (most likely!) I think that she is gearing up for another Child Support modification court hearing, because you know, in 9 months the spousal support stops. Its "only" $300, but shes thinking that she could simply up the CS to balance out her income loss and is looking for any info on his income and lifestyle.
Theory #3: Neither of the above. She is trying to "make nice", and be "friendlier" to somehow shovel Feral Forger back to our home because she is tired of the filth, the attitude, the stealing and the lies.
Please let me know what you think. I am not saying anything to DH, but I am just REALLY MAD that this b!tch has to continually violate and cross ALL fecking boundaries possible. So, yesterday I taught DH about instagram blocking and he made his first ever instagram post! It was a funny meme about fishing so of course now he gets irritating insta's!!! lol.