School meeting tomorrow need Advice
DH has SD14 Annual 504 plan meeting tomorrow with the school and BM. SD14 has been a TOTAL mess this year. Refusing to go to school, refusing to do HW or listening to her teachers. This all falls on BM's parenting time. Do to the Custody order BM has SS14 during the week and DH has her on the weekends.
SD14 has ALWAYS been a Spoiled disrespectful brat. Then add she's a mini wife who has to be up daddy's ass 24/7. My life was a living hell that is intill SD14 Discovered video games at 12. Video games have been a life changer for me when SD14 is over. SD14 will play for HOURS and I Actually can have adult conversations with DH.
Here is the issue...BM has ALWAYS hated SD14 playing video games at our house and had no problem telling DH this. DH was always my house my rules and basically told BM to go jump in a lake.
Well here is the problem...DH called to talk to SD14 Guidance counselor about SD14 poor school behavior. The Guidance counselor told DH14 that the school is going to "Recommend" ALL video games be taken away from SD14. I was like WTF. Now DH NEVER complained about video games and SD14 never played them at school SO this crap must be being pushed by BM to try and "control" our house. Now if DH takes away ALL video games SD14 will be Unbearable and up DH ass 24/7. I will NEVER have any adult time with DH.
So here is my question..when the school brings up they recommend that SD14 is not allowed to play video games at home what is a good Response from DH? DH can't just say he does not agree without a reason. I thought DH could counter by saying SD14 needs to get her HW done before playing video games but is this good enough? I need to do whatever I can to prevent this train wreck that will happen. Help!