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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 12:08pm

BM is throwing a fit again.

She’s pissed off that SO won’t give up this weekend. Turns out she “forgot” that she has family coming to visit her. I’m not saying she’s lying but every other time this has happened her father has called SO also about it and he hasn’t yet so that’s a bit odd.

Let’s also add that we have plans this weekend. We’ve had plans for this weekend since last year. I’ve had plans for this weekend every year for the past 5 years. The kids knew about these plans so it’s a good chance she knew too.

I’m also waiting for her to realize that summer visitation starts soon. Wonder what BS she will try this year. Last year it was “OH you mean you’re get BOTH kids for 6 weeks? Not 6 weeks with daughter and ONLY 2 weeks with my oh so prefect baby boy? Nope that’s too long.” She tried lying to the lawyers about that and of course my partner had kept those messages.

Then 3 weeks in she started crap saying SO had to return them a week early because she and her lawyer were screwing with the order. It clearly states he gets “SIX WEEKS” starting the “1st Friday after school lets out” and ending “The following 6th Friday.” Her and her lawyer tried all this crap about the first Friday counting to make him return them a week early.

What I love is of course her idea that if he doesn’t do what she says and he demands to follow the order clearly he is a horrible father who doesn’t really care about the children. No clearly him enforcing his visitation time is really just to get back at her.

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Submitted by lieutenant_dad on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 12:34pm

Stick to the CO, inform your attorney you have NOT relinquished this weekend, and have them send her a letter stating that not having them available with result in a contempt charge. Then charge her with contempt if she doesn't make them available.

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Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 1:44pm

^^This.

Also, I certainly would not trust her to "trade" weekends. Likely, she'd agree, then renege.

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 1:46pm

Agreed. That’s why the few exchanges that have happened before consisted of him getting his way first.

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Submitted by Dontfeedthetrolls on Wed, 05/02/2018 - 1:45pm

We are not giving up our weekend and she was clearly informed of that. That should be enough. Thankfully she pulls crap and tries to bully him into doing what she wants but she hasn’t flat out violated the order because she knows I won’t allow it.

Not him. She hates me because before me they hadn’t even talked about going to court and he did everything she wanted because she’d threaten to withhold the kids from him. After me he called her bluff so many times that she decided to try and get the court to remove his rights which didn’t go well because she had no valid reason and was called out on her lies.

No all she can do is refuse him extra time which she does. And we’re keeping record of it and the excuses for when SO tries for 50/50.